So apparently, though this site advertises as free - it won't let you see your messages. Screw that - if you think that's as idiotic as I do, contact me via that G thing at thegreatinspiration and hopefully this will get around their silliness. I'm not anti-capitalism, I'm anti-lying. You can also find me with the handle NotYourAverageW on a totally free site that that actually delivers what they say they will and has "cupid' in the name (I think it will strip it if I actually type it out here.

So send me to that place, url link to your profile here. And read below. It's silly to not read a profile - I'm flattered if you find me attractive, but that doesn't necessarily mean we're compatible.

I'm agnostic and after a few rounds on some other dating sites, I remembered that after the twenty-ninth or so "I'm sorry but we're not matched - you see, your god will smite me for my freethinking ways, and I know if you fall for me, you'll feel the need sooner or later to tie me to a bed for an exorcism or conversion therapy or something and I'm just not into that." I do begin to get a little bitter. Luckily for you, I realized this after only the tenth such response and so I'm here with all my shiny happy unique brand of optimism.

Or something.

Anyway - let's see what happens here.

Steenbok

Gemiddeld

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Bruin

Blank

Gescheiden

Ja - Bij Mij Thuis

Nee

Benen

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Blond

Kat, Hond

Nee

VWO

Zelfstandig

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Guide

Tussen de €30.000 en €45.000

Met kind(eren)

Komen er soms vrienden langs

Nee

Ja - Als ik uitga

Intelligent

Grappig, Vriendelijk, Baas

Knutselen, Kamperen, Koken, Dansen, Eten, Fitness, Gezin, Tuinieren, Lezen, Vrijwilligerswerk

Well, through this medium - only first meetings - coffee, a light hike, maybe meet up at an event like First Fridays. No pressure, low time/ money investment for everyone involved. And ideally it would be playful and have some sparks and lead to a date. But it would still be good if it were interesting, friendly and led to a good friend.

To learn more about chess - where I could actually do a tournament. Fencing - I took a class in college and keep meaning to take one again. Skydiving, climbing a really big mountain, walking the Appalachian Trail, or across the US, or some other country. Space shuttle? Making cheese. Taking a gourmet cooking class. Improv comedy.

Vriendelijk, Een herrieschopper, Gek

Agnostisch

Nooit

I think more in terms of projects and somehow they weave themselves into something resembling what other people see as "goals" - currently, my projects include saving money, building my wacky quarterly weekend events, building a couple of sculptures I've had on the list for a while and getting six paintings done so I can have a small show, as well as completing my mural painting portfolio.

Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Vriendelijk, Gek

Ik hou niet van tv

Science Fiction, Komedie, Drama

Ambient, Country, Dance, Electonische Muziek , Folk, Industrial, Jazz, Latin, New Age, Punk, Rock

Anthologie, Klassiek , Comedy, Fictie, Gezondheid, Geschiedenis, Huis & Tuin, Educatief, Natuur, Filosofie, Politiek, Wetenschappelijk, Satire, Natuurwetenschap

Let's see, the last time I found myself really having a blast, I was saran wrapping strangers to a stripper pole I'd let someone shove through a piano I'd built so that a woman I knew could have a moment of rolling around on it singing show tunes in a sequinned dress at a celebration of Octopuses that I threw together on the fly with twenty people I know I can throw such ideas out to and they will jump on board.

Not that this is the only sort of thing I have fun at, but you know, that level of hilarity is something I seek. And adore when I can find/ make it.

Moed, Empathie, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Intelligentie, Eigenaardigheden, Macht, Gevoeligheid, Spontaniteit, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

I look for qualities similar to my own - kindness but strength, self-motivation but a balanced ego, the ability both to communicate clearly and to listen and hear what another is saying. Obviously for dating, I'd have to be physically attracted, but that's a wide set of qualities that fit in that.

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid